3. set healthy, biblical boundaries with family. next, once you’ve gotten honest about the situation and the role you may have played in it, it’s time to set some biblical boundaries with family members and friends who may need them. A person is toxic when she is threatening your family unity or emotional well being and there is little to no sign of that changing or improving. 2. forgiveness is crucial but acceptance is not. jesus always forgave but he did not accept sin. he pointed it out and offered love and encouragement to change and heal.
The bible clearly condemns abusive behavior that causes physical, emotional, or spiritual harm (ephesians 4:29 32; colossians 3:8; matthew 18:6). when family members exhibit patterns of violence, manipulation, degradation, or chronic dysfunction that violates biblical principles of love and respect, it indicates toxicity. Psss: “and it was told him by certain which said, thy mother and thy brethren stand without, desiring to see thee. and he answered and said unto them, my mother and my brethren are these which hear the word of god, and do it.” (luke 8:20 21) kerri mckenna reece has worked in the field of trauma for over 20 years. The christian guide to dealing with toxic family members. last updated on: may 25, 2018 at 6:56 pm. may 25, 2018 by kim parker, lcsw. christians often struggle in relationships for the right and. In this way, we can respond to toxic family members with a spirit of love and gentleness, as james tells us to be “quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger” (james 1:19). finally, in many cases it may be wise to exercise caution when dealing with toxic family members, particularly if the behavior is dangerous or cannot be changed.
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